Xinlan's Hand-made Private Kitchen [spicy Grilled Tofu on Iron Plate]-tears with A Smile

Xinlan's hand-made private kitchen [spicy grilled tofu on iron plate]-tears with a smile

Today is the wedding anniversary of Ping and Lang. They have lived together for ten years. The days are far less beautiful than imagined when they were young.
It seems that the wedding anniversary has not been celebrated for a long time. In the first few years, Lang still remembers this special day. The short-term beauty and freshness after marriage always allows him to come up with surprises of this or that kind to make Ping happy. A bouquet of flowers, a dinner, a gift, a little love song that will always be remembered... At that time, Ping always smiled happily, enjoying the happiness she thought she should have given her.
After graduating, Lang worked as a salesman in a private company, and Ping worked as a teacher in a second-rate private school. The wages of the two are not high, and their lives are tight. Lang once said to Ping: "My dear, I will use everything I have to make you happy forever, always like a princess." Ping snuggled in Lang's arms, eating the special apples Lang bought from the supermarket, laughing. It was very sweet, and his eyes were full of longing and beauty. In her opinion, this former boyfriend, now husband, will surely realize this wonderful promise just like fulfilling the promise of marrying her.
The days are like that, and the freshness will always pass. With the gradual increase of age, the troubles of reality also follow. We always discover after a short stimulus that we can't live in the beauty of imagination forever. It turns out that those firewood, rice, oil, salt, and sophistication can easily extinguish the gorgeousness of dreams and make people exhausted. They mortgaged and bought their own small house; their first child was born; the child was going to kindergarten; the child was going to elementary school; the colleague got married; the colleague got promoted...every time belongs to their own or other people’s happiness Happiness, after a short period of happiness, will definitely bring about a long or short economic crisis.
Lang's work is not satisfactory. The cruel market competition will always make him famous forever. Unfortunately, Lang is one of the ten thousand bones. I am in my thirties, and I have paid off my mortgage every month. I have solved the child’s tuition fee and there is not much left. The monthly sales summary meeting is his most difficult day. Watching those young or mature sales elites portray their great achievements impassionedly on the stage, Lang always lowered his head and smoked cheap cigarettes fiercely. After each such meeting, Lang will not participate in the after-meeting dinner. He always finds a small restaurant alone, a plate of peanuts, a small stir fry for more than ten dollars, a bottle of low-quality liquor for a few dollars, Ling Ding is very drunk, and he will definitely have a big fight with Ping after returning home. field. Ping usually only shed tears in silence and endure it in silence.
Ping couldn't live like a princess at all. After a hard day of teaching, she always has to rush to the dirty and noisy vegetable market to bargain with the vulgar vendors. It may not be the freshest, but it will always be the most affordable food. Then he hurried to the school and waited for her child. Then hurried home to wash the vegetables, wash the rice and cook. Ping prepares two bento boxes every day. It is the lunch for her and Lang on the second day. It is very simple. There are always a lot of vegetarian dishes with a little poor meat. Next, clean up and wash clothes... Tired is the only thing Ping feels. Fatigue also directly affects the quality of her work. The dissatisfied vision of the leaders and the wanton complaints from parents make her live like years.
Yesterday, in the winter evening, the snow was heavy and it was dark early. Ping hurriedly walked out of the vegetable market and slipped and fell. The special eggs I just bought are all gone, and the thick yellow is particularly dazzling in the snow. Ping looked at herself, tears flowing arbitrarily. In those youthful years, she had imagined her future life more than once, she should be like a lady, dressed in gorgeous fur, sitting in the elegant garden, drinking coffee and red wine, with a face full of coziness and happiness. She may never have thought that she would be like now, wearing an old coat that has long been outdated, and her face full of exhaustion and sadness, she fell to the dirty vegetable market and wept...
Back home, Ping had no time to organize herself, and was busy in the kitchen again, because the child was hungry. Today is the day of sales summary, Lang will not go home for dinner. After dinner, as usual, Ping still had to work on and off. Time is especially easy to pass in the busy, unknowingly, it is ten o'clock in the night. With the sound of the key, Lang came in with a drunken body, and spread out on the sofa, full of complaints and swear words. Ping looked at this man who once felt that she could take care of her life and promised to make her live like a princess. He was so downhearted, so embarrassed, like a mud that couldn't get on the wall, his heart was like a knife cut, and the grievances accumulated for a long time. It erupted like a volcano. She beat and cursed the mud, like a mad woman. Crying all night, sad all night...
Hit and beat, scold and scold, life has to go on. Today, as usual, I still go to school, buy groceries, pick up children, and go home. As soon as he entered the door, Ping was stunned. There are already several steaming dishes on the table, such as fried shredded pork with green pepper, hot and sour potato shreds, scrambled eggs with leeks, braised crucian carp, sizzling tofu, and a bottle of orange that she loves the most but has not been willing to buy for a long time. . With the traces of being scratched by Ping yesterday and his face full of guilt, Lang greeted Ping and took the food and bag in Ping's hand: "Wife, let's eat."
Suddenly, Ping felt that the man who was so drunk and full of swear words was still so gentle yesterday. Lang settled the child, opened the dining chair for Ping, turned around and took out a bouquet of lilies from the room: "My wife, today is our tenth wedding anniversary, I love you." Tears flowed unconsciously, but Ping's A long-lost smile appeared on his face, so sweet and so beautiful. Lily, her favorite flower, is their love. Teppanyaki tofu was her favorite snack when she was a girl. At that time, no matter how cold or tired he was, as long as Ping acted like a baby, Lang would definitely go to the stall to help her buy it. She no longer heard Lang's guilty confession, and no longer recalled the sorrows that made her tired. "My wife, don't cry." Lang gently helped Ping wipe the tears from his face, and held her tightly in his arms. "Lang, this is the second time I laughed and shed tears in my life. The first time was at a wedding. From now on, you can no longer make me sad. Even if you shed tears, you must laugh and cry. In this life we will go together."
We are all worldly people, living the fireworks of firewood. For this look back in this life, I have been begging for thousands of years in front of the Buddha. Meeting you in this life is the greatest happiness of my life. Although the road of love is bumpy, although our lives are full of bumps and bumps. Those quarrels, those crying, those hurts, those helpless, can't separate us. We still stick to it, don't we? In this magpie bridge meeting season, let us join hands in making a wish: Let’s go together in this life! Even if you shed tears, smile and shed tears.
Chu Ren Xinlan wished lovers all over the world will eventually be married, never leave, never give up, long love, long standing. "